I really didnâ€™t think i would be able to get close to another girl for a long time. I didnâ€™t think i could risk putting myself through that kink of heartache again. But i guess i was proven wrong. I got so used to being with my ex, it was as if i had just accepted it, and putting up with her and her shit for the sake of it. But i look back now and i can see how wrong for me she was. I think the problem i had was that she was my first PROPER girlfriend, ever. I was a big mother fucker when i was 16-18. I peaked at 20 stone, and have been relatively big all my life. This meant i had (and still have) no self confidence, and even when i lost a load of weight, in my head I was still that 20 stone fat dude that id always seen myself as.
Even now, after everything ive done and everything ive been through, i still think im that 20 stone guy. I never talk about my weight, or complain that im too heavy, i just think it – and it does drive me crazy. I need to motivate myself and turn what fat i do have, into muscle. Plus i really need to improve my heath, as its slowly getting fucked up. Teddy is training for a marathon. Id love to do one, especially one for charity with my mum or something. Running is a great way to get in shape, as you exercise a multitude of muscles, and it gets the blood pumping round your system. I can just never motivate myself to go out and run!
I guess that compared to some people im not fat, and probably healthier that a lot of people, i just dont feel healthy enough for me. Ill buy some running trainers (ha, any excuse!) and i will really try and get motivated. there is a massive patch of land next to my new house, so i think ill run around that.
Obviously with once being a 20 stone guy, and still thinking that im that 20 stone guy – comes paranoia. And its worse when im around females. I have been seeing a girl who dos seem to like me, and boy is the feeling mutual! I just get so paranoid that she’ll lose interest and go find some pumped up fake tanned ‘roid muncher who looks like he should be on the cover of “Total Fitness” magazine. I may want to be fit, and healthy, but i certainly donâ€™t want to be a “nice boy” with my sun bed advanced member card and david beckham haircut. I cant stand people like that. A tan is fine, but when people look orange because of the amount of shit they slap on their skin, and the amount of time they spend in UV rooms – it just looks stupid. I overreact a lot, and im probably overreacting now – but you cant help the things that float about in your mind, can you?
13 replies on “Down With ‘Roid Munchers!”
Women are bizzare creatures mate, never underestimate them. It may come as shock but maybe your lady friend might not want a fellow thats looks like Arnold Swarzchewhatsit’s & The Tango Man’s lovechild 😉
Be safe in the knowledge that only the very very very shallow girls like the ‘roid look. Straight girls love cock and ‘roiders tend to, err….shrink 😉
I never thought of that jackman!
nice one! 😆
Yeah i dont think she does ste, but women are confusing, and i never know exactly what they want…
They confuse the hell out of me.
But then again – i’m random and confuse the hell out of everyone.
The getting in shape thing sounds good, healthier body leads to healthier mind (apprently)
Do you confuse the hell out of yourself?
I could do with a healthier mind, as you lot can prbably tell with the constant typo’s and rammal i post 😆
Apparantly Healthy bodies also lead to increased sex drive and better sex.
So get her and you fit then your away 😉 😀
Yeah thats food for thought..
Why donâ€™t you try training for the Mansfield half marathon? I think its around June next year mateâ€¦ start off small and then work your way up to a full marathon?!!
Also FYI I think you will find that to most people looks and size isnâ€™t everything. I think most people have hang-ups regarding their weight, and wouldnâ€™t put off a potential partner cause they were too big/small. The oneâ€™s who are for keeps donâ€™t care what you look like! Be happy in your skin!
How far is this half marathon?
Thanks ally 🙂
a marathon is 26 miles i beleive, and i think a 1/2 marathon is 13. My dad’s done all the mansfield 1/2 marathons in the last 23 years (apart from this year) 🙂 he’s a pro!!
i have struggled with a lack of self-confidence in the oast! Until i met that someone! Now i feel i have a lack of self-confidence again 🙁 something i really need to work on!
Well, Dave and I are supposed to be signing up for a gym at some point (when we both get money/housing/work stuff sorted out) I’ll let you know if that ever happens. You’re more than welcome to come along.
I get bored too easily to visit a gym..
its the same shit, like running whilst staring at a wall..
or cycling whilst staring at a wall..
i need to run about outside i think… 🙂