Why do people always get in other peoples business? Unfortunately for me i run maxxd with dave, so i am dragged into arguments all the time. But sometimes it just takes the fucking piss. I have never come across people that are so fucking dedicated to annoying the fuck out of each other and everyone who may read what they have put. Why cant these apparent grown ups meet up and sort this out face to face?
There is one side of the argument, the males side, and i can see his point in some ways. As hes been miles away from his home for years, he’s probably lost touch with many of his friends, so therefore hasn’t got any where else to ask the questions he’s asking. On the other hand he SHOULD be a bit more sensitive to his ex-fiancée who also uses the site – as she’s still obviously upset about the whole situation and doesn’t want the further progression of his life – without her – parading about in front of her face.
On the flip side, there is her argument, and that is like ive just said. She doesn’t want to come on and see him chirping away about things he says he’s gonna do – that he should of done when he was in the relationship – and if he had would of meant they would probably still be together.
My answer to them both was to sort they’re fucking lives out OFF maxxd.com. I don’t want to fall out with either of them, but until they accept my request and move forward it looks like that’s probably gonna happen. What makes it even worse is my girlfriend is best friends with the girl, and is taking her side (obviously) and as i know exactly what’s been said on the site, and therefore know both sides of this particular incident i know that there is no side to actually take. They are both being as bad as the other.
I will say this. If my relationship with H is affected at all, because of this or a similar incident, then ill never forgive either of them for as long as i live.
Do yourselves a favor, get over it!
5 replies on “Mind your own fucking business…”
realise you are fucked off with me but i’ve only made the one thread i should not have, i think you are being a bit harsh and i know i was being insensitive but there would have been no problem if S had not thought the whole thing was a ploy to get me laid, which is rediculous.
anyway no more of my issues will come onto the site, can’t say the same for S.
I can’t see how i can effect your relationship at all, i’ll never ask you to choose sides.
Your side will probably be chosen for you while you are with H but i know you know me well enough to make your own mind up. We all make mistakes.
Anyways i’m sorry it caused you hassle (ste didn’t seem to think it was any hassle, he offered to delete her posts and leave the thread open but i said ‘no’ ) it was not my intention to cause hassle.
Seems like everything i do is wrong of late, S don’t want me back so i throw myself into moving on, which i also manage to get wrong 🙂 ace.
thanks for coming on and not being an arse 🙂 i understand that the things you say may not be intentional.. but like i said to S, it just seemed like you were both (cleverly) trying to get under each other skin, at our expence..
I know you havent asked me to pick sides – and i wont – but S may presume i have in some ways, and bad mouth me to H – anyway thats not a concern now..
I jsut hope this all blows over, and you can both get on with your lives.
Ol. 🙂
it definately wasn’t intentional on my part, i really need a fcuking lodger because this morgage is fucking EXPENSIVE 😆
i know it wasn’t intentional on her part either it just upset her.
i can understand why it annoyed her though, it was just that i was so excited i didn’t think, that was always a problem with me 🙂 me and sarah would still be together if it wasn’t for my stupidity.
I don’t think sarah would ever bad mouth you to H, she’s not that kind of person and i guess we both have to get used to knowing the same group of people now.
i just hope i don’t loose many friends over it all.
It’s the wierdest situation, i’m still madly in love with her but have to pretend not to be and have to try and move on, i do get the feeling people are “reporting” one me to her because i get the odd txt about stuff i’ve done or said thats not quite true so it’s obvious it’s like third or fourth hand info. If she really doens’t care then she should tell other people that and tel them she’s not interested in what i say or do and if she does care then we should give it another go.
I know that won’t happen though.
Anyways, not like you need all this messing up your blog.
I could do with borrowing a bit of you brian actually, i need a new domain name but have some sort of mental block when i’m looking for one. i need to change my email address (current one has ‘sarah’ in it) and get it hosted so it’s ready to rock when i get t’inernet at my house.
if you can think of any decent masonish domains that are available let me know 🙂
seriously it’s like my brain dies when i try to think up a domain 🙁
peece
ps what with the gay butterfly when you leave a comment?
I dunno, it is gay tho 😆
http://www.mas0n.co.uk
http://www.m4son.co.uk
http://www.ma5on.co.uk
the list is endless
And i can imagine it s astrange situation to be in, like ive said b4 i just hope you all move on soon and it all blows over 🙂